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"Learn how to avoid the main Dating Traps and find the partner of your dreams"
"Convenient! Attend by telephone from the comfort of your home or office"
Dear Ben,
I wanted to thank you for all the pertinent information you have been sending and for keeping me pointed in the right direction. You have no idea how you have helped me! When I read what you have written, it is almost like we are in the same room as I can actually hear the words in your own voice!
Thanks again for all your help and keep it coming!
C
"Thanks Ben - I can see what therapy did for me all these years; you shifted my perspective - instead of seeing myself as someone who lacks of confidence, has low self-esteem, and somebody seeking a "father figure" and as somebody afraid to be alone - this shifted for me and now I see myself as confident, desirable, strong, a chooser and not a seeker and somebody who is just afraid to meet the wrong guy. I am empowered not to settle anymore."
No one else can make you think, feel, do or say anything that you don’t want to!
"I'm 55 and single for 7 years, I thought I was meant to be alone for the rest of my days, but I met the woman of my dreams two weeks after starting the coaching process! -DM, Houston, TX"
'Smart & Aware Dating'
...dumped, divorced, widowed, separated, single parent, unsure,...?datingdating coach
‘Dating Sites’ vs. ‘Singles Coaching’:
(Hint: first, let's do the 'head stuff' through our workshops and coaching, defining your requirements and patterns and only thereafter develop your online profile!)
Dating Sites
Coaching
All you do in essence is fall right back into your old failing patterns that got you here in the first place, and here is WHY:
You go by an online profile only (possibly filled with deceiving facts even lies and possibly 10 year old or altered photographs, etc.!)
You go by your 'wants' only
You did not work on the definition of your: requirements, needs, and wants
You did not first establish who you really are deep down and what your vision and goals are
You did not clearly define your boundaries, what you will and will not keep up with or accept
You go by attraction parameters set by the other party (i.e. height, color of hair etc.)
Together we do the ‘head stuff’ first!
The benefits of working with me include
a 'two-step program' of:
Self discovery & readiness
Attraction work
CLARITY, about defining & setting your boundaries, values and beliefs; establishing your requirements/ needs/ wants, understanding the 3 stages of LOVE:
Lust
attraction
bonding
all this work is foremost about gaining
CLARITY, exercising
CONSCIOUS BEHAVIOR &
AWARENESS!
Result:
Setting yourself up yet again for the same old crushing and mediocre results, ending up in yet another broken heart down the line!
Result:
Change & understanding of old patterns, limiting beliefs resulting in conscious, aware decisions and thought process leading to new outcome and a new outlook on life and your new relationships!
Our latest project is a recurring Friday Evening event:
'AVAILABLE FRIDAY EVENING?'
LifePartnerQuest: a safe, fun, educational place for singles to meet
At a local venue with different topics every week. This is meant to bring even those singles out of the woodworks that are maybe shy and won't attend any of the 'other' singles events out there. Foremost a SAFE place to meet and learn.We will invite guest speakers, local authors, and complementing practitioners on different, relevant topics every week. You will NOT find your Life partner here but a safe, professional, supportive, environment: “We reserve the right to refuse admission to anyone that does not meet our minimum standards for appearance (NOT looks!), sobriety, or behavior”
Bring your friends along!
Get started TODAY, DON'T put off finding Love to next year!
Why are you single? First off, there's nothing wrong with being single at all! It's not a transition either - it's all about your baseline. Maybe it's not that you weren't good enough in your last relationship but that you might have tried to measure up to someone else's instead of your own values and beliefs! Or that too much pressure was put on you to be in a relationship by our western society, family and friends and you ended up, or worse, might still be in a bad, unfulfilling relationship just to gain society's approval!
Don't put your life on hold while waiting & preparing for your perfect partner! Only when you are becoming happy and successful living your dream conditions first then will you be ready to 'attract' your dream relationship!
Once you understand the qualities as well as what you don't like in a prospective partner you can ONLY then become fulfilled by becoming this very image first yourself! This way you not only live up to your own standards but are more likely to 'match' your partner in the long run. Remember the saying that 'like attracts like', (just like 'misery loves company'? Just the other way around this time!)
New relationships and the fun, fascinating new ‘butterflies’ in your belly shut out logic in our head and make the heart skip a beat. So, before you experience a bad awakening the day after, let’s do and focus on the ‘head-stuff’ first to create the right basis for the times when the butterflies take over on autopilot!
We all have our relationship ‘baggage’, however we usually don’t learn from our past but fall right back into a similar situation again!
It takes conscious observation, new skills and a discontinued pattern to find what you are looking for – do YOU know what you are looking for? Usually it is much easier for us to point out what we DON’T want – so that’s where we start.
Learn what caused your relationship failures in the past
so you know what you need to do in the future!
Relationship Coaches are needed now more than ever before!
Did you know...?
There are more singles today than ever in history (101 million in US alone)
The marriage rate is going down, and in the past 30 years cohabitation has skyrocketed by 1200%
The divorce rate continues to exceed 50%, yet over 85% of all adults will marry at least once
Over 94% of young adults report that having a successful committed relationship is extremely important to them
The majority of first born children are now conceived by, or born to, unmarried parents
Half of all children will spend some time in a single parent family and most live below, or at the poverty level
Confidentiality & trust is what our
business and relationship depend on!
We will never sell, rent, trade or disclose
any of our client's personal data!
